Five ways to win my heart

Uhh… why does this have to be first?

Oh well. Not sure if these are ways to win my heart, but more a wish list for the girl that does.

1. Be honest

I feel like a chick flick by saying that trust is key, but it really is. I’m done with games and putting up with liars, and people who hide how they feel or refuse to say how they feel. Never been a fan of it, and I never will be. Good god if you like me, say it! and if you don’t, say it! Don’t make me second guess myself, or have my doubts. Tell me everything there is to know about you and in return I will do the same. But tell me the truth.

2. Don’t be shy

There’s nothing I hate more than finding out someone likes me and I’m just like, “Who’s that?” I get it! I have my crushes too, but I hate girls who just claim to want me and put in no effort at all. I know guys are supposed to do all that, but at least make conversation with me if you want to get to know me. I don’t bite, and I’m nice, if you’re worth being nice too.

3. Keep a kind heart and a strong head

Probably the two most attractive personality qualities in my opinion. I want a girl who is not necessarily Jimmy Neutron smart, but smart in the sense of the way the world world. I think I have an interesting perspective on this world, and if I want a girl to leave me breathless her head needs to be in the right place. I’m not a fan of obliviousness. I like the deeper type of person who I’d be able to have serious talks/texts/calls/whatever with. Those re my favorite things to do!

4. Be you!

I’ve dealt with enough fakers to know that I will never deal with that again. I want to be able to fall in love with the person I think I’m falling for, instead of finding out too late that I’m really into deep. It’s not cool to be a bitch or anything so don’t be one! People can’t always be perfect but tell me about it. Just be yourself, because I want to be able to be myself around you you, not fake you.

5. Understand Music

I was going to say like the same music as me, but I decided that is something that might not ever happen, so I’ll cut you bacholerettes some slack. Music isn’t an intangible thing to me. It is my past, my present, my future. The words I could never garnish breaths to say. It is the title of this blog, my lies, my secrets, my mistakes. Music has always been there for me, and I have always had it as an outlet, and I’m hoping that will change with whoever steals my heart, and they can become as trustworthy as music is to me. Appreciate it, accept it. Don’t have to love it, because if you love me you will understand its significance.

If you qualify, I’m free Friday night.